Shrunken to such a small spot that I was certain I would never make another friend.
It takes a leap of faith...and certainty in the net.
Years ago I heard about an amazing organization called Camp PALS.
Jenni Newbury Ross started the camp at age 15 with a friend.
Her idea: stop having situations where typical people come to "serve" the poor and disadvantaged people with Down Syndrome.
Blow apart the myth that people with Down Syndrome need your pity.
Come as a person willing to make a new friend.
Find fun things to do together, as a group, as teams and in partners so that you get to really know the person and hopefully, in all the fun, the disability falls away and you have the joy of just knowing someone new.
That was eleven years ago.
Today, Camp PALS has six camps offered throughout the summer all across the United States.
Campers come from all over and counselors do too.
Counselors and campers are paired up one to one and share a dorm room on a university campus.
Together they spend a week, having a blast.
Karaoke is usually a nightly event. Singing and dancing happen spontaneously.
Fun is a given.
So, in January I signed Patrick up for Camp PALS Chicago and asked my friend who lives in
New Jersey if she would want to have her daughter go too.
Last week, we met in Chicago and traveled to adorable Elmhurst College, and received this welcome.
a best guess, a wish and a whole lot of crossed fingers.
It was way better than we ever could have imagined.
What are the five things that everyone at Camp PALS values?
They are welcoming, accepting, passionate, genuine and fun.
Pretty great trademark qualities.
Everybody I met had them in spades.
I wanted to hang out there, but I wasn't invited.
And knowing my mom-place, I said good-bye as cheerfully as possible and made my way back to the city of Chicago for a seven day wait.
It goes without saying that Patrick had a blast.
|Chandler and Patrick, friends forever.|
Maybe, Jenni took a look at her brother, Jason, (who has Down Syndrome) when she was looking for important qualities in the people she wanted to represent Camp PALS.
As a sibling, she knew the secret: if the outside world could really know Jason as a friend,
the world would be a better place.
Here's a Camp PALS classic: one of the days of camp was Camp Day at a AAA baseball game. Tons of other camp groups were there besides Camp PALS. Suddenly, there was a downpour. Everyone had to take cover. The other camps were counting off, trying to line up and be orderly. The Camp PALS group just started dancing in a circle and singing...giving everyone in the group a chance to shine...encouraging them by naming them in the song. Some kids from other camps came up to the dancing circle and asked what camp this was and when could they sign up. :)
Together we're better.
filled with amazing people.
Thank you for the long hours of hard work behind the scenes to make everything run so smoothly.
Thank you for the incredible photos, the inspiring videos, the texts during the week to let us know it was all going great.
Thank you for your gracious hospitality.
Thank you for making it really "their place" and for giving a whole bunch of people the chance to come together in friendship and fun....a chance for independence and inspiration...a chance to dream of what the future could be like.
Most importantly, thank you for following your gut and working to make our world more inclusive -- more welcoming, accepting, passionate, genuine and fun...qualities I'm gonna focus on for a while thanks to you.
Thank you for being our net.